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1. ★★★★★subscription and paid restrictions

   rip off. This app is essentially unusable if you dont pay $80. Even after paying $79.99 the junk ads are so intrusive. VERY shady operation.

2. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

   BEWARE‼️‼️THIS APP KNOWING ALOWS MINORS. This app is breaking the law and I’ve reported it several times. They allow minors to post profiles on a gay adult mans dating site‼️ The moderators do nothing about and don’t think they understand English. It needs to be shut down🚨 They take zero protective measures at sign up to stop minors from creating profiles.🚨🚨ZERO MEASURES AND DO NOTHING WITH YOU REPORT IT. I have several screenshots and have reported to the FBI

3. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

   Terrible app. Do not use this app! When using the search engine almost everyone shows to be less than 20 miles away when most are hundreds of miles away. Also, the app is full of bots, sellers and scammers. Total waste of time

4. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

   The Worst.. Great concept but so cumbersome and unintuitive and plagued with glitches. I’d never pay to subscribe.

5. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

   App has issues with smaller frame men.. App seems to have issues this allowing smaller frame men from posting shirtless none nude photos, as any attempt they would labeled the photos ‘x-rated’, despite profile after profile of shirtless larger figures men being able to post the same type of photo on their profiles.

6. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

   Scammers! Scammers! Scammers!. There’s so many on this app that I’ve hit the limit on how many I can block!

7. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

   Marked as spammer and no recourse. The first time this app has been useful in years and randomly in the middle of a conversation your bot just blocks me from everything? I only was talking to one guy, and I said 2 words and it “marked me as a spammer” which then means anything I tap on this app is blocked and has this pop up saying I’ve been marked as a spammer. Including deleting my photos which is inaccessible? So you’d be allowing people to steal my photos because I can’t delete them without deleting the entire profile, which is what I did. What idiotic nonsense. Deleted it, not coming back to a useless app that does something like that.

8. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

   Do not recommend. App is full of unverified profiles (bots)with pictures of hot guys who message you to get tour info.

9. ★★★★★subscription and paid restrictions

   No support whatsoever despite multiple attempts. I purchased the VIP upgrade for $9.99, yet no enhancements have been reflected in my app. Whenever I attempt to access a VIP feature, I am redirected to a payment page once again. I have contacted support on four separate occasions but have received no replies. My inquiries to both technical and general support have gone entirely unanswered. I recommend avoiding this app, as none of the premium features appear to function properly, and the lack of any customer support indicates a deficient business practice.

10. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

    Sucks now. Used to be great, now it’s a waste of time

11. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Sucks. Sucks, full of bots and scammers

12. ★★★★★ads disrupt the experience

    Greeted by ads. Unusable

13. ★★★★★subscription and paid restrictions

    Just stealing money. Payed for the subscription and none of the features work.

14. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Bots. Too many.. Overall, I feel like the design has potential. I didn’t cross paths/get messages from any actual real profile, though, only scammers/bots using other peoples pictures. Very disappointing. In 2026, you’d think they’d be able to weed out that stuff but I guess not. Onto another app I go….

15. ★★★★★subscription and paid restrictions

    VIP Access is a scam. I paid for the vip access but still have to watch 1-2 minute long ads everytime I click on a message or photo. Total scam.

16. ★★★★★account bans or deletion without explanation

    Suspension? For what?. This app will randomly suspend your account without even emailing you the reason. Hard pass on this dumb app.

17. ★★★★★crashes, freezes and errors

    App stopped working. This is the second time that the app stopped working. I had just deleted it and let it go for awhile, then started another account. A couple of weeks later, it stopped again. People must think I blocked them. Making customers look bad is probably not the best way to do business. 🤬

18. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

    Never got to use it…. Never used the service before, 100% new to it. I made my profile, within a few seconds of saving it I was immediately booted and banned. My profile was clean and not vulgar. No pics posted nor messages sent or received. Reached out to customer service and got zero response. I’ve been using that email for several years with other “dating” apps no problem.

19. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Taken over by scammers. I find it hard to believe that this app has four stars. Probably the same scammers that are scamming everybody are also giving it high marks. It used to be a great site to meet men of color. Now it’s down to losers looking for cash, scammers from Ghana and India, and bots. The first thing they’ll ask is what you do for a living. If you get that, block. The other thing that they do is they follow you by liking so they can steal your pictures that you post and pose as you. Here’s a hint: if a profile says they are looking for networking love or relationship, it’s a fake. This is a meet and greet site, not Christian Mingle! Whoever started this site needs to take it back and make it a legit meet up app again.

20. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    0 STARS. I’ve been on A4A for 2 weeks and all I’ve encountered is CATFISHERS, men who insist on sending nude pics, and “Pro’s” (pay for play). Hardly any of the members are verified members making it easy to catfish. If someone chats you up do a reverse photo search on Google.

21. ★★★★★subscription and paid restrictions

    No support. Paid for nothing. So I bought pro, well before that I did the free trial. After starting the trail it actually never activated and let me try any of the pro features. Contacted support and told them. Got no help. So I thought well maybe if I paid for it. It would work. Nope same thing. Tried contacting support again. Nothing. Tried canceling it and restarting the service. Nope End up being charged for it twice without being able to even get a refund. Also made zero clients cause I couldn’t advertise as pro. Overall waste my time and money. The company isn’t even active on their socials enough to respond to any pleas for help. It’s all a third party support that doesn’t know what to do even if I could talk to someone.

22. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

    Adam4Adam. Why can’t I get from my iPhone Apple Store?

23. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    What a waste of time. This site is absolute garbage. In the short time I have been a member I have been trollled so many times it makes me wonder how members do they actually have. This site is full of bots. You log out and within hours you get a messages stating you have mail but when you log back in, no mail. Thirst trap pics after thirst trap pics and then people have the gall to ask for money. If all you’re into is hooking up this site is for you.

24. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

    Worthless app. This app is a complete waste of time and a scam. The algorithms that are set in place are designed to dangle the carrot in front of your face and then match you with people who you have nothing in common or no interest. They met you only with people who they think should be suitable for you and does not take any of your personal preferences in to account.

25. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Tired. The scammer report me so i got suspended

26. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Scammers. Most guys ive chatted are from india. They used fake photos.theyve been askin for your photos 3 or 4 times and they toying your wmotions and asking for money or gift cards. Others they sell you some bogus investment bitcoins. Be careful what you see are not real

27. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Scammer vile. Horrible people on the app they’re all trash 90% of them are on drugs want money or our scammers

28. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Horrible App. Do not use this app! Most of the accounts on this site are fake, and scammers. Once the scammer finds out that you know they are fake or if you call them out on it. They will report you as fake. A4A will immediately suspend your account without even asking what happened. You can’t even reach customer service once that happens. After it is suspended, if you try to access your account, it is deleted. Also most of the results were from users thousands of miles away. Good riddance A4A! You aren’t the only one dating app out there there!

29. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

    Terrible. 90% advertising, jumps to

30. ★★★★★account bans or deletion without explanation

    Scam. They will suspend your account and customer support will say it’s because they need your drivers license or ID for verification. It’s a scam.