Couples & Poly Dating: 3rder

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1. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

   Most Fake Profiles Ever. In the month I was on this app, I believe every “person” who contacted me was a scammer. They all wanted me to go Telegram or What’s App and tell me they charged for “hookup”. Don’t believe any of the positive reviews. This app is the worst.

2. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

   Bad app. A bad and disgusting app

3. ★★★★★subscription and paid restrictions

   Not bad, but needs some tweaks.. I stumbled across this app and thought I’d give it a try. Overall, fairly decent app. But I keep seeing people that I’ve blocked keep reappearing in my feed, which is SUPER annoying. I think after my subscription I’ll have to leave this app until that gets fixed, cause I’m sure I’m not the only one experiencing this. 3rder, LOOK IN TO THIS!!!!!!!!!

4. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

   It’s bull. Talked to multiple women, every single one asked for money. Whether it be gas, security, etc. even had one straight up say she was a sex worker.

5. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

   This app is a fake app. Don’t waste your time. 🙌🏼🥂

6. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

   don’t waste time. after receiving 100s of likes and kisses and about 3 months use I haven’t had a single match. what a waste of time

7. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

   SCAMMERS. The app is full of scammers, everyone i matched with kept asking me for telegram or gas money

8. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

   Not a good interface. So many bots. I found the app so difficult to use that I gave up pretty quickly. However, there are a ton of bots from the “US” no real location. The app shows a lot of profiles that are really far distant, which isn’t helpful. They got a little bit of money from me, which I have big time buyer’s remorse over, but this is a for-sure “delete and move on.”

9. ★★★★★locking “see who liked you” behind a paywall infuriates everyone

   FAKE REVIEWS. Those 5 star reviews are a misleading way to get people to download the app. You have to pay to message people, view likes, and see who kisses you. Don't waste your time

10. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Nothing but bots. Nothing but bots. One day in, and I have 20+ “kisses” from 20 something girls from the “US” with one line bios (I’m 48). Even a few with obviously AI photos. Waste of money.

11. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Littered with spammers. Tried this app for weeks, paid and verified account. Found that 90% of the people are scammers/fake accounts and not verified accounts. I started asking them to verify and they started reporting MY account. I verified and paid yet got my account banned because the scammers literally report you for calling them out, they have multiple accounts to do this. Waste of time, energy, and money.

12. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Bots & Scammers Galore. The concept is great but execution is terrible. Every single match was with a bot or scammer using the same lines - claiming to live close by and then asking to talk off-channel. Total waste of my time.

13. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Keeps wanting more $$ don’t recommend. Spam and blurred images and wants 24.99 a month to match with spam or scammers

14. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Only scammers. This app is not meant for single men. Everyone is looking for only females—couples are only looking for females, females are looking for females, and even TS profiles are mostly looking for females. Single men have almost no chance of making any real connection. I matched with a few profiles, but all of them turned out to be scammers. After just a few messages, they ask you to move to another app, rush the conversation toward a hookup, and then eventually ask for money for gas or a “visiting charge.” The app’s design is actually good and very easy to set up a profile, but the number of scammers completely ruins the experience. I ended up deleting the app and my profile within one day because it was just a waste of time dealing with fake accounts.

15. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Scammmmmers. The app is filled with scammers don’t buy there anything everybody is catfishing there

16. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Nothing but fakes. The last 20 likes I have received have been from foreign scammers asking for money. I’m not exactly sure how this app has so many good reviews considering the rampancy of these scammers.

17. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

    Help. I can’t create a account I can’t find where to contact them

18. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Do not download. This app is full of scammers, dead profiles, and fake profiles. And it seems like the developers of this app don’t even care to change that or fix it… It is a waste of time. You can’t even contact them when you hit the contact email button within the app. Ps if you the developers are reading this,,, I want my money back….

19. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Scammer and fakes. This app is totally populated by scammers and fake profiles. And even if you get a full verification, the site throttles your ability to contact other users. It’s total garbage

20. ★★★★★crashes, freezes and errors

    App is broken. App deleted my account info twice in the same day after sign up. There were no violations on th

21. ★★★★★subscription and paid restrictions

    Lots of “I charge to hook up” profiles.. Their UI and features are basic. You can’t be that discreet. The few matches I had were of women charging for services. I’d love to get my $49 back.

22. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Full of fake profiles and scams. Tons of fake profiles will match with you and will ask for personal information.

23. ★★★★★privacy and excessive permissions

    Graet app. The privacy features on 3rder are underrated. You can hide your location, blur photos, and control who sees your profile. That was a big plus for us as a professional couple. We’re still exploring the app, but so far it’s been positive. I had some tech issues at first — the app froze during signup — but after restarting, it worked fine. Once inside, the experience was enjoyable. I connected with a fun couple who made me feel welcome and safe. The app just needs a bit more polish to be perfect.

24. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Skip this one. After 12 hours of use. 15 Matches, 2 Ghost, 13 Bots, Escorts, or OF creators. Not worth it unless you live in a major metro area. Save your time, sanity, and money.

25. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

    Don’t work. The app don’t work keep saying I used my email and I didn’t tryed my phone didn’t work

26. ★★★★★subscription and paid restrictions

    Good idea but its a cash grab. This app could be amazing but its only set up for a cash grab instead of actually doing what its intended to do. There’s a serious lack of filters and some of them dont even seem to work. I still get likes from men even though they arent supposed to be able to view. Most of the likes or “kisses” you get are from fake accounts that arent verified. A ton of the accounts just say US or the state they are in without actually mentioning the city. On top of all that there is no way to filter people by distance which is a basic function that pretty much any dating app should. The red flag for me should have been when they make the cost for 1 month significantly higher than the cost for 3 or even 6. As long as this app has been around, it should have most of these things corrected but its pretty clear this was a waste of money. Hopefully this review can keep others from wasting their time. I’m guessing a lot of these reviews must be fake or paid for. Do yourself a favor and sort by something other than “most helpful” when reading them

27. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

    Garbage. This app is not good hard to find people in your area missing features to let you roam your location and not real people behind the profiles. Do not recommend. The only App I have found to be somewhat successful with is 3F. This app is a 0 for me

28. ★★★★★bots and fakes destroy trust in every app

    Bots. Seems to be all bots and timed prompts to pay. There’s just no good place to chat and meet people

29. ★★★★★negative experience without a specific reason· unspecific

    Garbage App. this app requires you too pay to talk to anyone but it’s entire user base is either 4 states away and or sex workers. Do not use.

30. ★★★★★account bans or deletion without explanation

    Not helpful. Downloaded the app, the same day they suspended my account . I have sent various emails and no one gets back to me.